Oh man, I totally get that feeling. Youâve just finished this huge chapterâyour bachelorâsâand instead of feeling clear, youâre staring at a dozen different paths and wondering which one is yours. Itâs totally normal to feel that way. Hereâs what helped me when I was in a similar spot: donât think about the *forever* decision right now. Thatâs too much pressure. Instead, ask yourself: what kind of work sounds interesting to you right now? Even if it's just a little bit. Maybe try interning or volunteering in a field you're curious aboutâyou don't have to commit. Also, talk to people who are doing jobs you find interesting. Most folks are happy to share how they got there, and their stories are rarely straight lines. You might realize it's okay not to have it all figured out yet. You've got time. This isn't a raceâit's your journey.