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Personality types · Diplomats

Diplomat Personality

Diplomats are idealistic and empathetic, preferring harmony over winning cold arguments.

The four types in this group

What people in this group have in common

Craving Genuine Bonds

  • They place kindness and generosity first, and generally favor collaboration over rivalry
  • They seek to comprehend both themselves and the people around them
  • They can apply this understanding to sway those in their circle
  • They are attuned to how others are feeling
  • It can almost appear as though their emotions and thoughts echo the feelings of those nearby

Pursuing Transformation

  • Diplomats hold a profound commitment to humanistic values such as selflessness, empathy, and understanding
  • They are acutely attuned to injustice
  • Diplomats are driven by their values rather than by practical considerations
  • They may struggle to carry out plans that are practical rather than fueled by passion
  • They frequently learn to reconcile these necessary duties with the big-picture thinking they relish

A Greater Calling

  • Diplomats span a range from softly compassionate to vibrantly outgoing
  • Their open hearts can leave them exposed when others behave thoughtlessly
  • They are deeply moved by a wide variety of creative endeavors
  • They are devoted to contributing to the common good
  • Activism, spirituality, healing, and volunteering are frequently among their interests

The Pull of Belonging

  • Relationships matter enormously to them, and not just any relationships but genuine, meaningful connections
  • A core struggle in their lives is reconciling their desire for authenticity with their desire to belong
  • For Diplomats, a key part of personal growth is learning to be genuine even when they worry that doing so might cost them popularity

Ready to Take the Leap

  • They can trick themselves into believing they've taken the leap when in reality they're still standing at the edge
  • Their inner lives and imaginations are remarkably active
  • Diplomats usually possess a strong gut feeling about what suits them
  • By listening to this inner wisdom and acting on it, they can discover fulfillment and purpose in daily life, whatever obstacles may come their way

Defining Their Own Success

  • Diplomats don't follow a conventional template for ambition
  • They aspire to create a lasting impact on the world, which is no easy undertaking
  • They may feel like they're perpetually chasing ideals and standards they can never reach
  • They consciously measure themselves against others either frequently or very frequently
  • By letting go of these comparisons, Diplomats can free themselves to pursue things their own way and at their own pace

Questions people ask

What does 'Diplomat' mean?

Diplomatic in everyday speech means tactful, which captures their focus on people and values.

Which types are Diplomats?

INFJ, INFP, ENFJ, and ENFP are the four Diplomat types.

Do Diplomats prioritize feelings over logic?

They decide via values and people, seeking meaning in work and relationships.