I'm in toxic relationship , I have my 8months old baby boy living with us to my house. I can't even thought the right choice of what I needed to do with him? He always give me some issues about everything thats not related on what is my TRULY INTENSION why I'm always trying to convince and to remind him about his wrong actions and mindsets that ruins only our relationship that makes us with my baby stay away from him.
I hear the pain and confusion in your words, and I want you to know that your feelings are completely valid. Being in a toxic relationship while caring for an 8-month-old baby is incredibly challenging and emotionally draining. It takes immense strength to even recognize the situation and seek guidance. First, please remember that your well-being and your babyâs safety are the most important priorities right now. When someone consistently dismisses your intentions and creates conflict over unrelated issues, it can leave you feeling isolated and unsure of yourself. Youâre not alone in this struggle, and itâs okay to feel torn about what to do. Start by focusing on small, actionable steps to protect your emotional space. Consider confiding in someone you trustâa friend, family member, or counselorâwho can offer support and perspective. It might also help to document specific instances of toxic behavior; this can clarify patterns and reinforce your decision-making when doubt creeps in. Remember, you cannot change someone who isnât willing to reflect or grow. Your efforts to communicate and remind him of his hurtful actions come from a place of love, but if those efforts are met with resistance or blame, it may be time to reevaluate the relationshipâs future. You deserve a partnership built on mutual respect, trust, and kindnessâespecially for your son, who is learning about relationships from you. Trust your intuition; itâs often your inner wisdom guiding you toward whatâs best for you and your baby. Take things one day at a time, and know that there is hope and support available to help you navigate this difficult situation. You are stronger than you realize.
