You know, it's funny - sometimes we think cutting people off is about them, but really it's often about protecting ourselves. And that's totally valid. What helps me is creating a little space before making that final decision. When someone frustrates you, try naming exactly what's not working - "When they do X, I feel Y." Sometimes just getting clear on that pattern helps you see if it's something you can address together. I've found that setting firmer boundaries first often works better than going straight to cutting ties. Like saying "I need to step back from this conversation when it gets heated" instead of disappearing completely. It gives both of you a chance to adjust. But honestly? Some relationships do need to end. The key is making sure you're doing it from a place of self-respect rather than pure reaction. If you've tried communicating, if the relationship consistently drains you more than it fills you - sometimes walking away is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.
